Father’s Day

On Father’s Day, I can’t help but think of the people who grew up without fathers or that have passed away. It’s hard for me to say Happy Father’s Day when I have these thoughts lingering in my head. To those who these things have happened to, I don’t know what to say. “I’m sorry” doesn’t seem to fit, but how about, “You’ve made it this far. Continue to persevere and just enjoy life with those you truly care?”

It’s tough for me to write this because it IS is sensitive issue, but I have to get this off my chest. It’s not a day of celebration for a LOT of people in this world and that bothers me. I just keep thinking about that…

Well, I guess it’s good we do have a day to celebrate fathers because I’m sure it’s not easy being one (so props and congratulations to you!). These are some of my thoughts about “Father’s Day”…

Andy

Great post David! =)
Foua

i have to agree with you, because its the same thing for mother's day..its hard not having my mom here with me and my family, and seeing other people express love towards their mom really gets to me.. so father's day is something that i have to cherish with my dad because he's the only parent i have left..
mewsickishmeee

Never thought about it like that…because I do have a father in my household. My family doesn’t celebrate it, but I think I like the idea of having someone to celebrate if we do decide to do so…
Gladiany

That's very thoughtful, David.
Misha

Yeah one of my best friends is in that situation ever fathers day I think about her and it makes me sad. But I do what I can to show my appreciation to my own father because I love him so much.
Amy

Shouldn't look at it that way… just a special day to give recognition to the fathers of the world .. but I understand your point…!
anonymous

David, why are you so cute?
dani

I think what you said makes those who have fathers appreciate them even more, and for those who do not have dads or who don't exactly have the best of fathers will hopefully be motivated to become better parents for their own children. That's what my dad did.
Jackie P.

Yeah I agree with you. I'm actually going through a rough time because of my dad, that's why I'm confused and hurt. Thanks for this blog. It makes others who are fortunate to cherish the fathers they have. People who lose their fathers along they way.. just don't know what to do, how to feel..going through that right now..because I can't even call him since he is so close..thanks.
Chuck Moran

Finally – someone actually says out loud what I've been feeling since I was 14 – the age I lost my dad to lung cancer (he was ONLY 45 people). I'm now, well, old enough to be David's father, and Father's Day has always been a sad day for me. Mainly because after many years I finally realized that I REALLY HONESTLY lost a true FATHER. He was ALWAYS there for me, he encouraged me, and despite any character flaws he may have had, he excelled in the parenting department, and I now realize how lucky I was to have him – even for that short time. But maybe that is all the more reason Father's Day has always been sad for me……….
http://kristinebean.tumblr.com/ kristine

totally saw you at souplantation
cenzhi

>not just good in music but has great sensitivity in different topics that other guys doesnt have…

>i like your covers..

>smile again,will you?haha
JennAy

I feel the same. I lost my dad to a massive stroke when I was eight (I'm currently 22) and he was only 50. It tears me to pieces when I think about it because instead of saying goodbye to him before he went to work the day it hit him, I decided I would just watch him from a far while he said his morning prayers and leave. People around me still have their fathers but keep saying they hate them and things like that… when they say that stuff it makes me cry and I always say, “At least you still have your dad… I wish I still had one.”
http://www.twitter.com/kyleloskutoff Kyle Loskutoff

damn o.O thats deep…and a good point…we should change it to “Happy Male Role Models Day”
misschanto

I was thinking the same thing earlier.. You are so thoughtful, well said David.
jen

i don't celebrate father's day and it's just another normal day for me. he's still around, physically, but it makes no difference to me. i'm still struggling hard trying to forget the past.
Alixtustin

Wow.. I've really never thought of this… Completely changes my view every fathers day from now on…
http://www.facebook.com/people/Andrew-Rails/510183520 Andrew Rails

I really appreciate your voicing and consideration on this subject. I'm going to be a lot more grateful for who I have in my life now. Thanks.
http://www.facebook.com/people/Rosli-Bin-Mhm-Said/1303645387 Rosli Bin Mhm Said

yeah, we must be graceful for still have our father here and love us. However, I never said happy father's day to my dad. I don't know why because it's quite heavy for me to said it..
Kathy

David:
Your father is an amazing musician and teacher.

I walked into Grace Music in 2001 and heard several autoharps playing “Amazing Grace”. Tears of joy started because it was so very beautiful.

I took some lessons from your Dad and met your sister and Mom.
It made me happy because my Dad was a music teacher too. Your Dad reminded me of my Dad.

I know how important a father is. We were blessed.
PS: Can you convince your Dad to do a song on YouTube?
Kathy

David:
Your father is an amazing musician and teacher.

I walked into Grace Music in 2001 and heard several autoharps playing “Amazing Grace”. Tears of joy started because it was so very beautiful.

I took some lessons from your Dad and met your sister and Mom.
It made me happy because my Dad was a music teacher too. Your Dad reminded me of my Dad.

I know how important a father is. We were blessed.
PS: Can you convince your Dad to do a song on YouTube?
Alexa

I grew up without a father, but I don't feel sorry for myself. I guess it's because I'm used to not having one. So don't feel sorry for us David, no worries. We're just fine. Well, I can only speak for myself, hehe.
Nana

my dad passed away 8 years ago and everytime fathers day comes i feell sad